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How do I exit safely/quickly if I decide to leave? Should I practice?
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What can I do in the place I am living it make it safer? (Change locks, ensure doors/windows are locked, security cameras, rope/ladder, outside lighting, etc).
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If I feel we are going to have an argument, where in the house can I go that is the lowest risk for me? (Try to avoid bathroom, kitchen, garage – anywhere there may be weapons and no outside door access).
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Are there weapons in my home? Should I think about having them removed?
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Where can I put copies of important documents and money? (ID, birth certificates, etc).
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Should I have an emergency bag packed for me and my children?
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Should I keep my phone and keys on my person or in an easy to access area?
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What friend/neighbour should I tell about my situation? Discuss calling for help?
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What ‘code’ word should I use with my children, family, or friends so that they know I am in danger and they need to call the police?
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Should I be aware of the vehicle does my ex-partner/partner drives/has access to?
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Should I check the inside/outside of my vehicle?
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Should I always have a full tank of gas?
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Should I always back in the driveway to allow for a quick exit?
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Should I teach my children to call 911?
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Should I contact the school/daycare to make them aware of who can pick up my children?
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Should I tell my boss about the situation?
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Should I have a co-worker walk me to my car at the end of my shift?
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How should I change my routine when I am out in public? (When I typically go grocery shopping, bank, etc).
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Should I check my smart phone to ensure that my location services are off?
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Should I be mindful of what I am sharing on social media and where I am checking in?
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What Apps or Devices am I using now? (social media, activity trackers, banking)
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Should I be aware of shared and linked accounts? (phone bill)
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Should I know how to apply for an EPO, Peace Bond, or to Family Court?
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If I have to leave my home, where will I go that is safe?
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What are the local transition house phone numbers?